BEING BLACKMAILED FOR  YOUR SEX ACT

As humans, we are all prone to do stupid things during our lives but some victims really do stupid acts that creates problems to them later.  Here are is some examples.

                                          

Some attractive young women choose to lure men to commit explicit acts online in a bid to blackmail them later.

An unknown seductress had been targeting her victims in the UK on Facebook and sending them friendly requests for pictures of their victim’s naked bodies before taking things further and pretending she wants a sexual relationship with them.

in 2015, when a young attractive temptress in te UK  began chatting up men across the country and asking them to be intimate with her,  they thought their dreams had come true. This reminds me of the spider wooing the fly to come closer. They didn’t know that their sex act was filmed.  

Unfortunately for these men, this particular femme fatale had made hundreds of pounds (a pound is $1.30 in US money) by luring men into her sex trap. She demanded £500 from her victims after filming their escapades and threatening to publish the footage unless they pay her the blackmail money.

 This evil woman had been targeting young men in her blackmail scam and made attempts to lure them into carrying out explicit acts on Skype. When they finished their sexual interlude, her victims were told to pay hundreds of pounds or footage of them would be posted to their family and friends.

These stupid men fell for the woman’s scam without thinking of what the consequences might have been.  

The Hertfordshire Police, which raised the alarm after receiving 20 reports thus far in 2015, said that they believed that the woman’s  con was being carried out around the UK.

The force said: "The men, whose ages range between 17 and 36, were contacted by a 'young attractive woman' via social media and encouraged to have conversations between them via the online video chat service, Skype.

In some cases money has been transferred, including sums in the region of £500, police said. Detective Inspector John Hazeldine said: "This is a scam which we believe is taking place across the country, and not confined to Hertfordshire. However, it is important that young men are made aware that this is taking place so they do not fall victim to this woman."

In March 2015, one man from Luton and two others from Bedford were blackmailed after performing sex acts on Skype with a woman they met online in a similar case.

Detective Sergeant Sandra Evans, of Bedfordshire Police previously said: “We are urging everyone to be really careful about what they post online. Remember, once something has happened online, it is almost impossible to completely remove it so be careful what you share and who you share it with."

Alison Banner, 40, from Derby, was jailed for 15 months after she blackmailed a married man out of £7,000 after she photographed him having sex with her. Banner had met the man online, who had not had sex for over 10 years before blackmailing him.

Another honeytrap in August of 2015 saw a married church-goer seduced by a woman named Alverie Walker, 42, who then blackmailed him for £500.

She and her male partner, Dougal Gunter, 39, both of Bristol, concluded that their victim was an easy target before she convinced their victim in his 40s to come to her home.

They had sex and she took photos before Gunter appeared and threatened him with a knife, ordering him upstairs to have sex with his partner in crime again on camera.

The man "was not able to comply with the demand for the blackmail money so Gunter ordered him to pay 500pounds , or he would tell the man's church community about what happened between him and the woman.

The woman pleaded guilty to blackmail and she was jailed for 32 months, while Gunter, who also admitted theft, was jailed for four years.

Local syndicates in Kuala Lumpur, are targeting Indian girls as young as 16 by luring them to take pictures or videos of themselves being naked, and then blackmailing the girls into having sex with them.

The syndicates were mostly based in Rawang, Selangor, with one or two in Johor, said MIC Youth secretary C. Sivarajah.

Based on its findings, the youth wing said that some of the groups were targeting schoolgirls as young as 16, as well as factory and girls working in supermarkets, promising them love and marriage before duping them into posing naked.

"After taking their nude pictures and videos, the girls were made to do whatever the guy wanted. Otherwise, their pictures would be uploaded on the Internet or circulated to others," he told the New Straits Times in an interview.

The youth wing had also received cases of girls being forced into prostitution after their nude pictures were taken.

There was a case last year where a 17-year-old girl was asked by her boyfriend to pose naked, for a person said to be a loan shark
 as payment for a loan to be paid.

 The girl, wanting to prove her love, agreed. The guy who had pretended to be a loan shark who  later blackmailed her to have sex with him if she did not want her pictures to be circulated. It was only after he made her have sex with five other men that the girl realized that her boyfriend was part of the syndicate. When she refused to do it any more, they released her pictures to the public.
  There was another case early this year where five girls were befriended by a man from one of the syndicates, promising them love and marriage and persuaded them to pose naked."He later took them to Penang for a holiday and there threatened to distribute their pictures if they did not engage in sexual acts. He later sold them to a prostitution ring there.   

Many men are using social networking websites to threaten to expose pictures of their female victims for money or psychological revenge, even exploiting the women's desperation to coerce them into sexual relations.
 

An increasing number of Arab women are being blackmailed into paying money or having sexual relations with men who threaten to expose pictures of them taken from social networking websites. Photographs were the most common blackmail tool as they were more easily obtained through social media.

While some blackmailers target women for money, others "thrive on emotional and psychological control", according to Dr Azhar Abuali, the care and rehabilitation director at the Dubai Foundation for Women and Children. There is also the type of criminals who seek revenge in response to being rejected by the girl, and whose objective is to dominate the victim and place her in a submissive and helpless state so that she will eventually accept his demands.

Several young Arab women said they had not reported sexual blackmail for fear of being forced into an early marriage or not getting married altogether, being harmed by the blackmailer or their parents or being grounded for life.

Blackmailing is a type of abuse and is a violent act that can have severe emotional and psychological impacts especially if the victim feels that she is isolated and unable to ask for help.

A 21-year-old undergraduate of the Federal University, Nasarawa, Miss Blessing Odama, was been arrested in 2018  by the police for blackmailing several men at the Federal Capital Territory using their nude pictures.

The 200 level student studying Philosophy at the institution was apprehended alongside her boyfriend, Ibarahim Danladi, also a student of the university, by operatives of the Inspector General of Police Special Intelligence Response Team, who trailed them to their hideout in Maraba area of Nasarawa State.

Odama and her boyfriend ran into trouble, after one of their victims, identified simply as Danti, paid the sum of N150,000 after being blackmailed and thereafter demanded an additional N300,000, threatening to kidnap the victim’s wife and children if he failed to comply with his demands.

Danladi confessed during his interrogation that his girlfriend, Odama, took the nude pictures of the men and their phone numbers for them to blackmail and that he didn’t know how his girlfriend got the men’s nude picture but all he did was to buy a new sim card whenever she came with the pictures and the phone numbers of the men and he would start blackmailing them.

Danladi helped the police in arresting Odama, who confessed that she was forced to go into blackmailing men because she claimed men were wicked for promising to give her good money before having sex with her only to give her peanuts after they were done.

Beware of those online sex sirens out to blackmail you. Sexual partners; temporarily or permanent may subsequently blackmail you.  The victims in many countries are being victimized not only by strangers but also by lovers and best friends. If you ae going to have sex with someone, make sure that there are no camera’s or videorecorders in the room. And don’t let your sexual partner film you when you are naked. If you are careless, you may see your naked body on the internet which is there for millions to see for ever.