A CHRISTMAS STORY        

Charles John Huffam Dickens was born on the 7^th of February 1812 and he died on the 9^th of  June 1870 at age of 58. He was an English writer and social critic. He created some of the world's best-known fictional characters and is regarded by many as the greatest novelist of the Victorian era.

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Very few people in his era celebrated Christmas quite like Dickens did  and yet, behind the showy dinners and determined good cheer by his fellow citizens. was a painful reality, that was only hinted at in his most famous of his writings;  A Christmas Story. The main premise of his story is the regret for past deeds committed by his main character in the story.

When Charles Dickens’s death was announced in June 1870 the young daughter of a Cosmonger ( a street seller of fruit and vegetables in London )asked anxiously: “Is Mr. Dickens really dead? Does that also mean that  Father Christmas will die too?”

The Christmas Story by Dickens has been handed down for generations like a recipe for plum pudding, savored for the deft way the story knits the novelist and the midwinter festival together into one warm cozy mitten. Just the phrase “costermonger’s daughter” suggests all sorts of Dickensian themes – city grime, cheap street food, the capacity of innocent children to rise lispingly above the squalor of their circumstance. But what often gets missed is the way that the little girl’s question – if she really existed, if she ever said it – assumes how vulnerable Christmas is. Just like Mr. Dickens, it could be suddenly snatched away at a moment’s notice.

It is 175 years since Dickens published A Christmas Carol, the 28,000-word novella that lay down the template for  what we now know as part of Christmas—Prince Albert and his imported fir tree of 1841hat  made a contribution to our Christmas celebration and of course, so did Henry Cole and his Christmas cards of 1843, and a London sweet-maker called Tom Smith who came up with crackers in 1847.

But Christmas was pulled together, codified, made visible in the  story written by Dickens who wrote A Christmas Carol in six weeks in the autumn of 1843. The book, published on 19^th of  December of that year, tells the story of Ebenezer Scrooge, a bitter old miser who is given a chance to redeem himself when he is visited in turn by four ghosts (of past acquaintances on Christmas Eve. ) As a result of their warning about what will happen if he fails to change his ways, the grasping old skinflint repents of his life-denying selfishness. Flushed with goodwill, he lavishes a delicious Christmas dinner on the family of his shabby and exploited clerk, Bob Cratchit. Was Dickens  delivering a message to all those skinflints in London who paid meagre salaries to their employees?

It was at Doughty Street, and later at the nearby addresses to which he moved his family, that Dickens would habitually enact his version of the festival.

“Christmas was always a time in which we in our home looked forward to with eagerness and delight,” recalled Dickens’ eldest daughter, Mamie, who was born at Doughty Street. Her younger brother Henry chimed in: “My father was always at his best, a splendid host, bright and jolly as a boy and throwing his heart and soul into everything.” Guests would be offered a turkey dinner followed by a dazzling display of magic tricks courtesy of himself. Dickens had only to wave his hands over a gentleman’s top hat for a steaming plum pudding to emerge; a box of bran was transformed into a live guinea pig. Even Jane Carlyle, a regular guest who could generally be counted on to say something spiky, was obliged to admit that Mr. Dickens was “the best conjuror I ever saw and I have paid money to see several.”

As an aside, the only two magic tricks I ever performed successfully was to place three jacks in three  various locations of the deck of cards  and the fourth jack at the top of the deck of  cards. Then I would tap the top of the deck in which then all of the four jacks would then be at the top of the deck. The second trick was to turn a tap on until a thin stream of water ran from the tap to the basin. Then I would take my comb out of my pocket and hold it next to the stream of water and when I did that, the stream of water curved slightly from its destination in the bottom of the basin.   No I won’t tell you how I did these two tricks.

Dickens’s hectic high spirits – at one point, says Mrs. Carlyle, the naturally abstemious novelist appeared positively drunk with delight at his own sleights of hand were driven by something darker. You have only to look at his other novels to see how Christmas is often skating on thin ice. In Great Expectations Pip passes on a pork pie intended for Christmas dinner to the escaped convict Magwitch, a good deed that will blight his life. In The Mystery of Edwin Drood, the young hero goes missing on Christmas Eve, leaving behind several clues that he has been murdered by his uncle. Saddest of all, in A Christmas Carol, Scrooge is forced by the Ghost of Christmas Past to observe himself as a boy abandoned at school over the festive season, and weeps “to see his poor forgotten self as he used to be”

As another aside, I, my brother and two other boys who were going to school in a residential school on Christmas in 1950, were the only boys in the school who weren’t able to celebrate Christmas in our homes. Years later when I was a young man in my early thirties and living alone, a black man I befriended invited me to celebrate Christmas in his home with his parents. brothers and sisters. 

The real-life roots of Dickens’s affinity with hunger, dispossession and cancelled Christmases have been identified many times. One nightmarish year when he was 12, young Charles was deprived of a home life following his feckless father’s imprisonment for debt. Wrenched out of school, the boy was set to work in a rat-infested blacking factory on the banks of the Thames River, returning each night to grim lodgings in Camden Town. Permanently ravenous, on his daily stomach-rumbling walk to work he would stop in Tottenham Court Road to spend his precious dinner money on a stale half-price pastry. So great was the trauma of this shameful year that as an adult Dickens divulged the details only to his best friend John Forster and Catherine. It is all there, though, in David Copperfield, his autobiographical novel of 1849-50, as well as in the narratives of those other fledgling boy heroes who have fallen out of the familial nest and now live unloved and hungry: Nicholas Nickleby, forced to drink watered-down milk by his schoolmaster, Oliver Twist daring to ask the workhouse beadle for more. These were other stories written by Dickens.

As another aside, when I was living in a group home on a farm on what was then referred to as Lulu Island next to Vancouver;  I was given 25 cents to buy food at noon hour before I returned for my second half of my music lessons. Around the corner was a café and I spend 15 cents on a jellied donut and 10 cents for a cup of hot chocolate. By the time it was supper, my stomach was rumbling with impatience.   

This disintegration of Dickens’s early family life became a psychic wound that he felt compelled to heal again and again. Hence his continual, compulsive need to assert his adult domestic happiness to both friends and strangers. Dinner parties chez Dickens amounted to a kind of theatrical performance. The curtain went up punctually since guests were typically asked to arrive for dinner “at fifteen minutes before seven o’clock” and arriving  a minute  late was greeted with a disproportionate coldness. The Dickens’s’ dinner service wasn’t solid gold but there were monograms on everything, including the fish slice, which struck some guests as a bit of an over-reach for the son of a bankrupt naval clerk. The only time my wife and I bring out our finest dinnerware is when we celebrate our Christmas dinner with our two daughters and a friend and our grandchildren. The smaller grandchildren’s plates are not part of our finest collection since we don’t want to risk losing three of the dinner plates.

There was something oppressive, too, about the elaborate courtesy with which Dickens’  guests were garnished. Besides each place-setting, there was a nosegay for the ladies and a buttonhole flower for the men. There were “quantities of artificial flowers” up and down the table, which was itself groaning with overloaded desert! Pyramids of figs, raisins, oranges. William Thackeray, yet to hit pay dirt with Vanity Fair and therefore feeling murderous about his literary rival’s sudden access to cash, couldn’t resist bitching to his mother about Mrs. Dickens’s penchant for “pink satin” and her dandyish husband’s suspiciously ringleted hair. The couple, he reported gleefully on another occasion, were “abominably coarse” and vulgar.

The particularly observant guest might have noticed other signs that something was amiss in the Dickens’s’ strenuous performance of middle-class domestic bliss. According to the gender codes of the mid-19^th century, married couples were expected to organize themselves around the principle of “separate spheres”. For the lady of the house that meant running her increasingly lavish home “like the Commander of an Army” (Mrs Beeton), supervising servants and ordering food. The master meanwhile busied himself earning enough money to pay the bills for all those curtains, carpets, housemaids and fish slices that were now considered bare necessities for anyone who aspired to a certain level of bourgeois gentility.

Alas, it didn’t work that way in the Dickens household. Documents, including some on display at Doughty Street, reveal that it was he, rather than Catherine, who ran the household. It is Mr., not Mrs., Dickens who frets about ordering a hamper from Fortnum & Mason, who drools over a fine piece of venison at the butchers, who sacks a sulky cook. Rumours about Dickens’s control freakery, in particular his habit of compulsively rearranging the furniture, had long circulated around literary London. But this appropriation of an active housekeeping role struck observers as downright weird. Nathaniel Hawthorne wondered out loud about Dickens “making bargains at butchers and bakers, and doing, as far as he could, whatever pertained to an English wife.”

All this might have been understandable had Catherine been a slapdash housekeeper or a terrible cook. But the evidence to hand suggests the exact opposite. In 1851 she pseudonymously published What Shall We Have for Dinner?, a highly useful and popular  four reprints followed quickly set of meal plans that encompassed everything from a smart dinner for 20 to modest family suppers. Ten years before Mrs. Beeton, Mrs. Dickens was organising her Bills of Fare according to what was seasonal (for which read good, wholesome and cheap) and which combinations of food would cook best on an open range, a complicated piece of kit which required a precise choreography of pots, pans and naked flame. What Shall We Have for Dinner? which was a manual for real housewives who had real budgets: showy spectaculars such as “Grenadine of Veal” and “Charlotte Russe” are balanced out with plenty of suet dumplings, raspberry jam sandwiches and endless mashed potato. The busy housewife, getting supper without the benefit of a professional cook at her elbow, would also be thankful for Mrs. Dickens’s many suggestions for cold beef and lamb, not to mention the variety of ‘made dishes’ knocked up from yesterday’s left overs.

Everything suggests that Charles Dickens was fully behind What Shall We Have for Dinner?, a rare surviving copy of which can be seen at Doughty Street. He wrote the pseudonymous introduction and arranged for the book to come out with his own publishers. So it is unnerving to discover that, behind such a ringing endorsement of domestic theology, Dickens was busy retreating from the whole confected caper. In his introduction he issues a warning that, if women don’t learn to be better housekeepers, they have only themselves to blame if their menfolk start spending evenings on the town and at their clubs. Which, it turns out, is exactly what he was doing himself. It was during the Doughty Street years that Dickens secured election to both the Garrick and the Athenaeum, gentlemen’s club for men who preferred a home-away-from-home rather than Home itself.Then, from the early 1850s, it was noticeable that Dickens was presiding over fewer dinner parties with Catherine, preferring instead to invite people to supper at his “gipsy tent” aka the Covent Garden office of Household Words, the weekly magazine that he edited. Crates of champagne and claret were ordered in advance, and the food was sent in from the hotel around the corner. “I loathe domestic hearths, I yearn to be a vagabond!” he wrote to a friend in 1848, in what was supposed to be a joke but sounds like a cri de coeur.

When Dicken’s final marriage separation came, in 1858, he was quick to put it about that the relationship had failed because Catherine was a bad housekeeper and even worse, a bad  mother. To one friend he wrote of his wife and the children that she “has never attached one of them to herself, never played with them in their infancy, never attracted their confidence as they have grown older”. The fact that he had fallen in love with another woman and wanted to be free to embark on an affair was apparently neither here nor there. Instead, opprobrium was heaped on Catherine by the Dickens camp, led by Forster, who managed to imply, without quite saying, that Mrs Dickens’s increasingly large girth and what Dickens termed her “mental disorder” was the result not of 12 pregnancies and accompanying postnatal depression, but rather a failure to keep her appetites within bounds. Catherine’s enjoyment of food was used as a weapon against her for many years, with one influential literary biographer even attributing the “famous breach” partly to her being too fond of her own recipes and becoming, while still young, “mountainous fat”

That certainly doesn’t apply to my wife. She is a good housekeeper, a great cook and she always  gave great care to our children before they went out on their own and my wife  never  became fat. I did however until I lost 131 pounds.

Tt should come as no surprise that A Christmas Carol, with its message about family cohesion, the forgiving of slights and, above all, the sacramental quality of a really plump turkey, is a text that everywhere strains with ambivalence. For one thing, there’s the obvious conundrum that a tale written to preach about the blighting effect of financial profit and loss on human relations was actually conceived as a money spinner. By the autumn of 1843 Dickens, who at 31 no longer counted as a boy wonder, was having to face the fact that his early commercial and critical success were over. In contrast to the great triumphs of Oliver Twist and Nicholas Nickleby, his current novel, Martin Chuzzlewit, wasn’t selling. It even looked as if the Great Boz might be required to pay back some of his handsome advance to his publishers Chapman & Hall. His home life wasn’t easy either. Catherine was expecting her fifth child, Dickens’s father, the Micawberish John Dickens, was sponging off his son, and the rent on the new family house at Devonshire Terrace was proving to be quite harsh.

So Dickens made a shrewd, calculated attempt at writing what today we’d call Christmas stocking filler. The publishing market had been changing its rhythms radically in recent years, with the festive period now emerging as the peak time to release new titles, partly as a consequence of the way that cheap print allowed ordinary working people to give books as presents. Dickens was also clear that he didn’t want to be in the position of having to split the profits with anyone, so he decided to publish at his own expense, bypassing Chapman & Hall completely. That is something I also do.

We know how the story ends. Ebenezer Scrooge learns that relationships are not about paying the least you can get away with and shutting yourself up in the prison of your lonely heart until you crumble into dust. He learns to love, not in the romantic sense (there will be no Mrs. Scrooge), but in the familial sense of giving away his affection to his estranged nephew and his impoverished clerk’s family, expecting nothing in return, and yet gaining everything in this new universe of feeling.

But there is another story here, and we know how that one ends, too. Dickens may have conceived of A Christmas Carol as a quick and clear-sighted punt on the British public’s increasing hunger for novelty books, but that doesn’t mean that it didn’t work its own transformative magic on him as well. Forster reported that he “wept over it, and laughed, and wept again, and excited himself to an extraordinary degree”. “He walked while  thinking of it fifteen and twenty miles about the black streets of London”, often at very late hours of the night. That year he kept Christmas with an extraordinary zest; “such dining’s, such dancings, such conjurings, such blind-man’s buffings, such theatre-goings, such kissing-out of old years and kissing-in of new ones, never took place in these parts before”. For one brief midwinter moment Dickens seemed to have healed his relationship with his traumatic past and a present that was beginning to show hairline fractures by plunging into warm Christmas cheer, a cheer that he worked hard to conjure into being. It couldn’t last of course, and it didn’t.

Dickens had a harsh life as did all those who were not rich in that era but he managed to use his great mind and write articles and books that captured the minds of his contemporaries and they still capture our minds in our present era.

I would be remiss if I didn’t credit Kathryn Hughes for her own article about Charles Dickens in which I have used much of her article for this article.