The creeps who sexually
abuse young women on their casting couches
The casting couch is used for the trading of sexual favors by an movie or television
aspirant, apprentice employee, or subordinate to a superior in return for entry into an occupation, or for other career advancement
within an organization. The term casting
couch originated in the motion picture industry, with specific reference to
couches in offices that could be and were used for sexual activity between casting directors or film producers or leading actors in order
sexually seduce aspiring female actresses.
It is
suffice to say that these sexual leaches were real creeps.
The term is now often used to
refer to other industries besides entertainment, though careers which are highly
desirable and traditionally difficult to break into, such as the movie, television and music industries, have been the
subject of casting couch stories in popular culture. Such trading of favors can be
an abuse of power—possibly even statutory rape—and can become a wider sex scandal if deemed newsworthy—which many
have been.
The legend of the Hollywood casting couch coincided with
the rise of the studio system in the 1910s. Many moguls were rumoured to have been
enthusiastic practitioners and it has been claimed that many actresses
attempted, with varying degrees of success, to attain stardom via this route.
In my opinion, if they were voluntarily searching for a casting couch to
further their aims, I hardly think that can be classed as some form of sexual
abuse unless of course the man is having sex with an under-aged girl.
In her memoir Child
Star (1988), actress Shirley
Temple claimed that one producer exposed himself to her in 1940 when
she was only 12. I am sure he wanted more but she wouldn’t have complied with
any wishes he hoped would be fulfilled.
In
2011, Corey Feldman alleged that children were
also victims of the casting couch. Paul Petersen said
that some of the culprits are still in the game and Alison
Arngrim claimed that Feldman and Corey Haim were
given drugs and passed around in the 1980s to other pedophiles.
In her book You'll Never Eat Lunch in This
Town Again, (1991), Oscar-winning
producer, Julia Phillips attempted to expose many of
the underground Hollywood institutions and confirmed that a "casting
couch" mentality was alive and well in Hollywood.
In a 1995 article,
journalist Peter Keough described Hollywood as "a town where everyone is
selling body and soul for fame and fortune and all —especially women who
are considered as real commodities. In
my opinion, Hollywood was becoming a brothel.``
In a 1996 interview, actor Woody Harrelson declared “Every acting
business I ever entered into in New York seemed to have a casting
couch. I've seen so many people sleep
with people they loathe in order to further their ambition. Imagine going to bed with a
man who is so loathsome, even a horny dog would run from him.
In 2003, Italian
actress Asia Argento stated that Hollywood
producers expect oral sex from young starlets in exchange for roles. Her
semi-autobiographical film Scarlet Diva
(2000) features a scene along these lines with painter Joe Coleman playing a lecherous
producer inspired, as revealed in October 2017, by Argento's alleged experience
with Harvey Weinstein, the sexual leach I will be
adding in this article later.
Robert Hofler's book The
Man Who Invented Rock Hudson (2005) alleged that Hollywood agent Henry Willson was a gay casting-couch
predator. Incidentally, Rock Hudson was also gay.
In her 2005 autobiography, actress Goldie Hawn stated
that cartoonist, Al Capp sexually propositioned her on a casting couch
and exposed himself to her when she was nineteen years old. When she refused
his advances, Capp became angry and told her that she was "never gonna
make anything in your life" and that she should "go and marry a
Jewish dentist. You'll never get anywhere in this business.
At a 2005 class reunion,
producer Chris Hanley told his former classmates
that "almost every leading actress in all of his 24 films has slept with a
director or producer or a leading actor to get the part that launched her
career.
In her autobiography Ich
habe ja gewusst, dass ich fliegen kann (I
knew I could fly—2006), Austrian actress Senta Berger (born
in 1941) claimed that in a New York hotel suite in 1965 a producer (born in 1902) exposed himself to her beneath his
silk dressing gown and offered to forgive her for the atrocities of the Nazis
if she slept with him. Hey, dummy. Why were you blaming her for what the
atrocities the Nazis did? She was a very young child during the War with the
Nazis.
In 2006, a New York City producer was accused of
sexually harassing several members of the cast of the off-Broadway play, Dog Sees God.
In 2009, Megan Fox stated
that leading film directors made sexual propositions while casting for film
roles.
In a 2009 interview
with OK! Magazine, actress Charlize
Theron claimed that when she was 18, she was propositioned at
an audition by a pajama-clad Hollywood director.[
"I thought it was a little odd that the audition was on a Saturday
night at his house in Los Angeles, but I thought maybe that was normal. It was
a normal occurrence in Hollywood and still is.
In a 2009 interview,
actor Mickey Rourke declared: "There's
definitely something called a casting couch. If you take a girl from the
Midwest with a pretty face and instead of inviting them in for an audition in the morning, the
directors invite them for dinner at night. I can recall with certain women,
we'd go out, I'd park the car on Sunset and by the time I'd got to the curb
there'd be three or four producers handing them cards. That's ways you can get a job.”
In a 2010 interview with Elle
magazine, Gwyneth Paltrow revealed that early in her career,
a film executive suggested that a business meeting should finish in the
bedroom.
In April 2010, actor Ryan Phillippe admitted on the Howard
Stern Show that he had had to flee a real creepy casting-couch
session when he was 18 or 19.
In a 2010 interview with Access
Hollywood, actress Lisa Rinna said a producer had asked her for "a quickie" when she was a 24-year-old
candidate for a role on a prominent television series. .At the same interview,
Rinna's husband Harry Hamlin claimed that a female
casting director attempted to seduce him in the late 1970s when he was 27.
In the November 2012 issue
of Elle, Susan Sarandon spoke of a really
disgusting" casting-couch experience in New York City in the late 1960s or early
1970s. She said, "I just went into
a room and a guy practically threw me on the desk. It was my early days in New
York and it was really disgusting. It wasn't like I gave it a second thought.
It was so badly done.” I presume she is speaking of the sex.
Theresa Russell has alleged in multiple
interviews that she was propositioned by a legendary producer Sam Spiegel during her first casting
session for The Last Tycoon. According to
his biographer, Spiegel had previously made liberal use of the casting couch
during the making of The Chase in 1966.
In July 2016, television
executive Roger Ailes was accused of sexual harassment by former Fox News
channel anchor Gretchen.
More
than twenty other women, including Megyn Kelly and Andrea Tantaros, have since come forward with
similar allegations about Ailes' predatory casting couch-like behavior in the
television industry over a 50-year period.
In October 2016, Cher posted on Twitter that
she had had a “scary experience” with an unnamed and now deceased
"gross" rich, important film producer at his house. She stated that
she walked out and they never spoke to him again because "no job is worth
that.”
Also in October 2016, Rose McGowan tweeted
that she had been raped by a studio head who then bought the distribution
rights to one of her films. She was then shamed while her rapist was adulated
despite the rape being an open secret in Hollywood. A year later, the studio
head McGowan accused was revealed to have been Harvey
Weinstein. Now I am going to tell you about that creepy sexual
predator.
Harvey
Weinstein, CBE (honorary) (born
March 19, 1952) is an American film
producer r and former film
studio executive. He was a co-founded of Miramax, which
produced several popular independent
films including Pulp
Fiction, Clerks, The
Crying Game, and Sex, Lies, and Videotape. He won
an Academy Award for producing Shakespeare in Love, and garnered
seven Tony
Awards for producing a variety of winning plays and musicals,
including The Producer’s, Billy Elliot the Musical, and August, Osage County.
Weinstein and his brother Bob were
founders and co-chairmen of the Weinstein Company from 2005 to 2017.
In October 2017, the company's board of directors fired Weinstein following
allegations of sexual harassment and sexual assault against young women.
This sexual creep was no different
than many men in power such as former president Clinton when he was first a
governor and sexually abused a woman working for him and later when he was the
president of the U.S. and had oral sex with Monica Lewinsky, a 22-year-old
employee working in his office.
The Hollywood
establishment, slow to react to the initial sexual harassment allegations
against Harvey Weinstein, (age 65 at this writing) began speaking out against
him more forcefully. Among those weighing in were his longtime allies and
beneficiaries such as Meryl Streep, Kate Winslet, Kevin Smith and Judi Dench.
They spoke up with a combination of disgust over his alleged behaviour and
remorse or defensiveness over their own business entanglements with him. Streep,
who once called Weinstein "God" while accepting the Golden Globe for The Iron Lady, condemned his alleged conduct as
"inexcusable" while also saying she did not know about it before. Even
the actors' labour union SAG-AFTRA joined the chorus in condemning the
disgraced movie mogul, calling reports of his alleged conduct as being abhorrent
and said it was unacceptable.
Similarly, Dench, whose awards and
nominations have been inextricably linked for two decades to Weinstein, first
at his company Miramax and then at
the Weinstein Co., said in a
statement that she was completely unaware of the horrifying offences.
Kate Winslet, who won an Oscar for
Weinstein’s company’s The Reader"
said in a statement that the alleged behaviour is without question disgraceful and appalling.
Glenn Close had also heard the vague rumours of Weinstein’s
inappropriate behaviour toward women. He said in a statement to the New York Times. “Harvey has always been decent to me, but now
that the rumours are being substantiated, I feel angry and darkly sad. I'm
angry, not just at him and the conspiracy of silence around his actions, but
also that the 'casting couch' phenomenon, so to speak, is still a reality in
our business and in the world. The horrible pressure, the awful expectation that
is put on a woman when a powerful, egotistical, entitled bully expects sexual
favours in exchange for a job.”
A studio insider who was not
authorized to discuss the matter and spoke on condition of anonymity told The Associated Press that the Weinstein
Company plans to change its name. Weinstein's name will be stripped from the TV
series Waco and Yellowstone, among other projects.
Actress Lena Dunham tweeted Sunday
night, “It is easy to think Weinstein Company took swift action but this has
actually been the slowest action because they always always knew
Since the Times article, more
accounts of predatory behaviour have followed. In a HuffPost report, TV anchor Lauren Sivan detailed an alleged 2007
encounter with Weinstein. Sivan, then working at a New York cable channel, said
Weinstein cornered her in the hallway of a New York City restaurant closed to
the public and masturbated in front of her. Sivan said she had rejected an
attempt by Weinstein to kiss her, and he responded, “Well, can you just stand
there and shut up?”
Ms. Gwyneth Paltrow, 45, is now an entrepreneur
and is no longer dependent on securing her next acting role. But she emphasized
how much more vulnerable she felt at 22, when Mr. Weinstein had just signed her
up for a star-making part. On a trip to Los Angeles, she received a schedule
from her agents for the hotel meeting with Mr. Weinstein.
When she was 22 years old, she got a role
that would take her from actress to that of a star. The film producer Harvey
Weinstein hired her for the lead in the Jane Austen adaptation Emma. Before shooting began, he summoned
her to his suite at the Peninsula Beverly Hills hotel for a work meeting that
began uneventfully. Later it ended with Mr. Weinstein placing his hands on her and
suggesting they head to the bedroom for massages.
“I was a kid, I was signed up, I was
petrified,” she said in an interview, publicly disclosing that she was sexually
harassed by the man who ignited her career and later helped her win an Academy
Award.
She refused his advances, she said, and confided in Brad
Pitt, her boyfriend at the time. Mr. Pitt confronted Mr. Weinstein, and soon
after, the producer warned her not to tell anyone else about his come-on.
Soon after, Mr. Weinstein called Ms. Paltrow and berated her
for discussing the episode; she told him that she had told a few friends,
family members and her agent. She said, “He screamed at me for a long time.”
she said that she was that fearing she could lose the role in Emma. “It was brutal.” But she stood her
ground, and insisted that he put the relationship back on professional footing.
Their work relationship grew rockier over the years, she said, and she
distanced herself. “He was alternately generous and supportive and championing,
and punitive and bullying, Men who behave like that are classed as
psych0paths—people who are indifferent to the feelings of others.
In 1984, when Tomi-Ann Roberts was a
20-year-old college junior, she waited tables in New York one summer and hoped
to start an acting career. Harvey Weinstein, one of her customers, urged her to
audition for a movie that he and his brother were planning to direct. He sent
scripts to her and then asked her to meet him where he was staying so they
could discuss the film.
When she arrived, he was nude in the
bathtub, she recalled. He told her that she would give a much better audition
if she were comfortable “getting naked in front of him,” too, He said that was
because the character she might play would be in a topless scene. She was told
that if she could not bare her breasts in private, she would not be able to do
it on film
Ms. Roberts remembers apologizing on the
way out, telling Mr. Weinstein that she was too prudish to go along. Later, she
felt that he had manipulated her by feigning professional interest in her, and
she doubted that she had ever been under serious consideration. She later said,
“I was nobody! How had I ever thought otherwise?”
Today she is a psychology professor at
Colorado College in which she is researching sexual objectification, an
interest she traces back in part to that long-ago encounter with Weinstein. She said that over the years she had had
trouble watching Mr. Weinstein’s films. With a new release, “I would always ask
myself, is it a Miramax movie?”
A New York Times
investigation chronicled a
hidden history of sexual harassment allegations against Mr. Weinstein and
settlements he paid, often involving former employees, over a period of three
decades up to 2015. The newspaper’s
published report included
multiple allegations of sexual assault, including forced oral and vaginal sex.
The article also included accounts of sexual harassment going back to the
1990s, with women describing how intimidating Mr. Weinstein was.
In the early 1990s, Weinstein asked Rosanna
Arquette to stop by the Beverly Hills Hotel to pick up a script for a role.
Born into a family of actors, Ms. Arquette
had already starred in a hit film, Desperately
Seeking Susan, and New York Stories. She would go on to perform in films including
Crash and television shows ranging
from Ray Donovan to Girls. Her account with Weinstein also
appeared in The New Yorker.
At the reception desk, she was told to head
upstairs, which she found odd. When she reached his room, Weinstein was in a
white bathrobe, complaining of neck pain and asking her for a massage,
according to Ms. Arquette. She said that
she tried to recommend a professional masseuse, but Weinstein grabbed her hand
and pulled it toward his crotch. She immediately drew her hand away.
He boasted about the famous actresses he had supposedly slept
with which was a common element of his come-on, according to several other
women who had encounters with Mr. Weinstein. “Rosanna, you’re making a big
mistake,” he responded to her withdrawing her hand. Telling anyone the names of
other women he had sex with is the actions of a creep.
She recalled telling him on the way out. “I will never
be that kind of girl.” What is most interesting to know is; if Ms.
Arquette had had sex with Weinstein, would she have still been given the part
she was told was available to her?
Weinstein’s
representative later pointed out that Mr. Weinstein did not produce the movie
he spoke about during Ms. Arquette encounter with Weinstein. Later, Ms. Arquette was in the Miramax film Pulp Fiction but she said that she
avoided being anywhere near Weinstein.
Rosanna Arquette, a star of Pulp Fiction, has a similar account of Mr. Weinstein’s behavior, as
does Judith Godrèche, a leading French actress. So did Angelina Jolie, who said
that during the release of Playing by
Heart in the late 1990s, he made unwanted advances on her in a hotel room,
which she rejected.
Actress Ms. Jolie in her experience with Weinstein said, “I had a bad experience with
Harvey Weinstein in my youth, and as a result, I chose never to work with him
again and warn others when they did. This behavior towards women in any field,
any country is most unacceptable.”
In 2003, Dawn Dunning was doing small
acting gigs, attending design school and waitressing in a nightclub where she
met Harvey Weinstein.
The 24-year-old was wary, but Weinstein was
very friendly, professional and supportive when he offered her a screen test at
Miramax, by inviting her to lunch and dinner to talk about films and even
giving her and her boyfriend tickets to see the Producers he produced on Broadway.
Then his assistant invited her to a meal
with Mr. Weinstein at a Manhattan hotel. Ms. Dunning headed to the restaurant,
where she was told that Mr. Weinstein’s earlier meeting was running late, so
she should head up to his suite.
There was no meeting. Mr. Weinstein was in
a bathrobe, behind a coffee table covered with papers.
He told her they were contracts for his
next three films, according to Ms. Dunning. But she could only sign them on a
condition: She would have to have three-way sex with him
Ms. Dunning said that she laughed, assuming
he was joking, and that Mr. Weinstein suddenly grew angry. He told her, “You’ll
never make it in this business. This is
how this business works.”
Does anyone know what three-way sex is? Is it done when three
people are involved or is it done in three different ways?
Erika Rosenbaum,
37 and an actress told CBC News
accused disgraced Hollywood movie mogul Harvey Weinstein of
sexual harassment and assault. She said there were three separate
instances nearly 15 years ago where Weinstein aggressively came on to her.
Rosenbaum said
that she met Weinstein at a party in Los Angeles in her early 20s. Afterward,
they booked a meeting to discuss her career. But the meeting's location was
changed to a hotel at the last minute, she said, and when she arrived,
Weinstein's tone shifted.
She said,
"I suddenly found myself fending him off, as though we were on a first
date and he was making unwanted advances," Rosenbaum. She said she was
trying to avoid embarrassing or angering him, because she was aware his
negative opinion could sink her career. She said she protested, but he
persuaded her to give him a massage. She said, “He put an arm around me and started—as if he was a
boyfriend. He started trying to be
intimate with me.” Rosenbaum later said that she left the meeting feeling
disgusted but was aware that any wrong move with the powerful executive could
ruin her career. She felt trapped in his room.
In another meeting, which took
place in the mid-2000s at a hotel room during the Toronto International Film Festival, Weinstein grabbed Rosenbaum’s
neck while he masturbated while standing behind her in the bathroom
Actress Rose McGowan has been arguably the loudest celebrity
voice condemning Hollywood’s tolerance for sexual misconduct and rape. But as accusations began to mount against
Weinstein, including revelations from
high-profile actresses such as Ashley Judd, Angelina
Jolie and Gwyneth Paltrow. McGowan has used her
Twitter account to also call out men who know the movie mogul and have stayed
quiet about his alleged misconduct.
The Times reported that Weinstein had
reached at least eight settlements with women, according to two company
officials speaking on the condition of anonymity, including one allegedly with
McGowan back in 1997.
In
2016, Rose McGowan made waves when
she publically alleged that a studio head (Weinstein) had raped her.
Using the hashtag, #Why Women Don’t Report,
she said she never reported the alleged crime because she was told that she
could never win such a case as told to her by a female criminal attorney who
said, “…because I had had done a sex
scene in a film I would never win against the studio head,” McGowan added that
her ex-partner sold the film she was working on to her alleged rapist’s
company.” She said, “They shamed me while adulating my rapist.”
McGowan is among a number of women in Hollywood
posting on social media in the aftermath of the New York Times report
that revealed decades of sexual
harassment allegations against
Hollywood mogul Harvey Weinstein She has often spoken in veiled
terms about an incident that occurred between her and the former head of Weinstein Company in 1997, of an
incident between her and Harvey Weinstein which reportedly occurred during the Sundance Film Festival and resulted in
Weinstein paying McGowan a $100,000 settlement.
According to a legal document obtained by The New York Times, “the $100,000
settlement was ‘not to be construed as an admission by Mr. Weinstein, but
intended to ‘avoid litigation and buy peace.'” It certainly didn’t buy
Weinstein any peace.
The New York Times story included allegations from multiple women
including actress Ashley Judd accusing Weinstein of inappropriate behavior and
sexual harassment.
Through his lawyer Lisa Bloom, Weinstein denied
“many of the accusations” in the Times article “as patently false.”
In a statement, Weinstein’s lawyer Charles Harder added the producer is
preparing a lawsuit against the Times.
That would be a very stupid thing to do because once the trial begins,
all the women who told the Times what Weinstein did to them would, while giving their testimony, describe in
great detail what this man really did to them. It is not unlike taking the
words sexual abuse and running it
through a Thesaurus for greater detail. Right now, all they are saying is that
he sexually abused them.
Attorney Lisa Bloom subsequently resigned as a legal adviser
to Harvey Weinstein as the film producer faces a spate of sexual harassment
allegations. Bloom, who has previously represented women accusing Fox News employees of sexual harassment,
announced the news on Twitter, “My
understanding is that Mr. Weinstein and his board are moving toward an
agreement. (probably a financial one) ” Her resignation came just a day after
she appeared to play down the allegations in an appearance on Good Morning America. While she conceded
that “what Harvey Weinstein has done is wrong,” she also insisted that he “has
changed” in recent years and claimed the allegations against him were not of
“sexual harassment” but of “workplace misconduct.” (Is there a difference
between the two?) Bloom's mother, women's rights crusader Gloria Allred, had
condemned her daughter's decision to represent Weinstein.
I find it interesting that Weinstein denied many of the allegations against him that were listed in The Times.
That must mean that other
allegations written in the Times are
true.
In a lengthy statement provided to the Times,
Weinstein himself apologized by saying, “The way I’ve behaved with colleagues
in the past (was because) I came of age in the 19’60s and 19’70s, when all the
rules about behavior and workplaces were different. That was the culture then.”
unquote Rape and other forms of sexual abuse is the culture of a great many
thousands of men but that doesn’t mean that men have to indulge in that kind of
culture.
Weinstein said in his statement
to the Times. “I have since learned it’s not an excuse, in the
office or out of it. To anyone, I realized some time ago that I needed to be a
better person and my interactions with the people I work with have changed. I
appreciate the way I’ve behaved with colleagues in the past (which) has caused
a lot of pain, and I sincerely apologize for it.”
If that isn’t an admission that he really did attempt to sexually some
of these women and in other situations, he did sexually abuse these women, then
I don’t know what is.
When this serial sexual predator was making sexual overtures to his victims when they were hesitant in giving him what he wanted, did he imply that if they didn't comply to his demands, then their hopes of a any career in Hollywood would no longer exist. That was in fact a form of extortion and that is a criminal offence.
Soon after the New York Times publication, additional actresses began sharing with The Times on-the-record stories of casting-couch abuses. Their accounts hint at the sweep of Mr. Weinstein’s alleged harassment, targeting women on the way to stardom, those who had barely acted and others in between. Fantasies that the public eagerly watched onscreen, the women recounted, sometimes masked the dark experiences of those performing in them.
The encounters these women recalled followed similar stories.
First, the other women said that Mr. Weinstein lured them to a private place to
discuss films, scripts or even Oscar campaigns. Then, the women said that he
variously tried to initiate massages, touched them inappropriately, took off
his clothes or offered them explicit work-for-sex deals.
More established actresses were fearful of speaking out
because they had work. Less established
ones were scared because they did not speak out. “This is Harvey Weinstein,” Katherine
Kendall, who appeared in the film Swingers
and television roles, remembers telling herself after an encounter in which she
said Weinstein undressed and chased her around a living room. Telling others
meant “I’ll never work again and no one is going to care or believe me,” she
reasoned at the time, which she later said in an interview.
Attorney Lisa Bloom subsequently resigned as a legal adviser
to Harvey Weinstein as the film producer faces a spate of sexual harassment
allegations. Bloom, who has previously represented women accusing Fox News employees of sexual harassment,
announced the news on Twitter, “My
understanding is that Mr. Weinstein and his board are moving toward an
agreement. (probably a financial one) ” Her resignation came just a day after
she appeared to play down the allegations in an appearance on Good Morning America. While she conceded
that “what Harvey Weinstein has done is wrong,” she also insisted that he “has
changed” in recent years and claimed the allegations against him were not of
“sexual harassment” but of “workplace misconduct.” (Is there a difference
between the two?) Bloom's mother, women's rights crusader Gloria Allred, had
condemned her daughter's decision to represent Weinstein.
The New York Times story included allegations from multiple women
including actress Ashley Judd accusing Weinstein of inappropriate behavior and
sexual harassment.
Through his lawyer Lisa Bloom, Weinstein denied
“many of the accusations” in the Times article “as patently false.”
In a statement, Weinstein’s lawyer Charles Harder added the producer is
preparing a lawsuit against the Times.
That would be a very stupid thing to do because once the trial begins,
all the women who told the Times what Weinstein did to them would, while giving their testimony, describe in
great detail what this man really did to them. It is not unlike taking the
words sexual abuse and running it
through a Thesaurus for greater detail. Right now, all they are saying is that
he sexually abused them.
Attorney Lisa Bloom subsequently resigned as a legal adviser
to Harvey Weinstein as the film producer faces a spate of sexual harassment
allegations. Bloom, who has previously represented women accusing Fox News employees of sexual harassment,
announced the news on Twitter, “My
understanding is that Mr. Weinstein and his board are moving toward an
agreement. (probably a financial one) ” Her resignation came just a day after
she appeared to play down the allegations in an appearance on Good Morning America. While she conceded
that “what Harvey Weinstein has done is wrong,” she also insisted that he “has
changed” in recent years and claimed the allegations against him were not of
“sexual harassment” but of “workplace misconduct.” (Is there a difference
between the two?) Bloom's mother, women's rights crusader Gloria Allred, had
condemned her daughter's decision to represent Weinstein.
I find it interesting that Weinstein denied many of the allegations against him that were listed in The Times.
That must mean that other
allegations written in the Times are
true.
In a lengthy statement provided to the Times,
Weinstein himself apologized by saying, “The way I’ve behaved with colleagues
in the past (was because) I came of age in the 19’60s and 19’70s, when all the
rules about behavior and workplaces were different. That was the culture then.”
unquote Rape and other forms of sexual abuse is the culture of a great many
thousands of men but that doesn’t mean that men have to indulge in that kind of
culture.
Weinstein said in his statement
to the Times. “I have since learned it’s not an excuse, in the
office or out of it. To anyone, I realized some time ago that I needed to be a
better person and my interactions with the people I work with have changed. I
appreciate the way I’ve behaved with colleagues in the past (which) has caused
a lot of pain, and I sincerely apologize for it.”
If that isn’t an admission that he really did attempt to sexually some
of these women and in other situations, he did sexually abuse these women, then
I don’t know what is.
These brave women who spoke out—many of them at
the cost of their careers and professional networks, endured years of disbelief
and others years of keeping painful experiences hidden before what is now
described as an ‘open secret’ that burst like pus from an infection and
released to the public the stench of decades of sexual violence and harassment
by men who were in power.
One would think that those women who have with
embarrassment, announced to the World what Weinstein did to them, would be
carried shoulder-high across the studio lots for finally exposing a man who
disgraced Hollywood. But instead they are now entering the next aspect of hell
that is common to so many women who report sexual violence against them. Their
public accusations and their willingness to prevent that kind of sexual
violence that has occurred in Hollywood during earlier years, is certainly
worthy of admiration. Unfortunately, the
survivors of Harvey Weinstein’s violent, bullying behaviour are now bringing
his victims to task in massive media headlines for not speaking up sooner, for
not caring about one another’s suffering and even, yes, for ‘asking for
Weinstein’s sexual abuse in the first place.
At
one point, Weinstein reportedly offered to go to Europe for rehab, where they
have special trips to the Alps or whatever. Journalists would call that act as
what it commonly referred to as “fleeing the country,” or otherwise known as
“Doing a Polanski,” This man was a film
director. In
March 1977, and was arrested and charged in Los Angeles with five offenses against
Samantha Gailey, a 13-year-old girl with rape by use of drugs, lewd
perversion, sodomy and a
lascivious act upon a child under 14, To
escape his sentence, he slipped out of the United States and went to Europe
where is still residing today. Women in whatever sex
sanitarium he lands in should fear this wretched, ‘slippery as greasey-type of
man.
Marchesa designer, Georgina
Chapman had told
People Magazine in a statement that she was
separating from Weinstein with whom she shares two young children. I don’t know
if the children are hers or both of them or if he molested them or not. I am
sure however that if he did, they would have told their mother and since she is
only leaving him with her children because of the recent revelations about molesting
women, the children were probably not molested by him. There is no doubt in my mind that if Hollywood makes a movie about Harvey Weinstein's life, Georgina Chapman won't let her kids watch the movie because she doesn't want them watching monster movies.
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great many of us men world-wide have known people like that when we were young
boys. I am an expert on that subject having been sexually molested when I was
both eleven and twelve years old, first by my late father and later by a man
who was in charge of a boy’s group home I had been sent to.
Harvey Weinstein was catapulted into World notoriety and plummeted into
a mushrooming sexual harassment scandal that has hobbled his status as a media
mogul and left his future in
Hollywood in jeopardy. The Weinstein Company’s
board of directors soon after the disclosure, voted to remove
Weinstein from the studio, leaving control of the company in
the hands of
Weinstein’s brother, Bob Weinstein, and chief operating officer
David Glasser.
The statement from the Board of Directors stated, “In light of new
information about misconduct by Harvey
Weinstein that has emerged in the past few days, the directors
of the
Weinstein Company, Robert Weinstein, Lance Maerov, Richard Koenigsberg and Tarak Ben Ammar have determined, and have informed Harvey
Weinstein, that his employment with The Weinstein Company is terminated,
effective immediately,”
Weinstein did not agree to leave
the company and there was no financial settlement in place, according to an
insider. He had been fired for cause after the board met having spent most of a
weekend trying to hammer out a deal for Weinstein to leave.
Weinstein still controlled roughly 20% of the company. The company may
have to give him his share as one lump sum.
Weinstein’s career has been destroyed by the devastating New York Times report documenting
decades of legal settlements stemming from sexual harassment allegations
leveled by former employees and associates, as well as accusations of improper sexual
advances from actress Ashley Judd. The allegations extend back to Weinstein’s
days when he was running Miramax, an
independent film studio that was then owned by the Walt Disney Company.
It’s really amazing what a man’s penis in conjunction with his brain
will do to destroy his reputation and career and in some cases, even his
freedom.
Harvey Weinstein was
a mogul, whose tenacity and ruthlessness previously put him at
the nexus of Hollywood, Wall Street, and the Beltway. He was not just a
movie producer; Weinstein was also a political player and major force in New
York City and Hollywood’s cultural and corporate life.
However, the scandal that shrouded
him was the latest in a long line of entertainers and moguls, from Roger Ailes
to Bill O’Reilly to Bill Cosby and many others who have been brought down by
accusations of sexual harassment or other forms of misconduct. Now he is simply
a disgusting lecherous creep who was found out.
His alleged sexual abuse became something of a Hollywood open
secret. When the comedian, Seth MacFarlane announced the Oscar nominees in
2013, he joked, “Congratulations, you five ladies no longer have to pretend to
be attracted to Harvey Weinstein.” The audience laughed. Nevertheless,
Weinstein’s misconduct continued.
If you think these events are disgusting (which they are), consider the
fact that they also have been part of all of our historic cultures. It goes on
all over the world and has been for centuries. It is certainly unacceptable in
2017 and forever as it was in the past.
The workplace is very dangerous place where sexual predators prowl. The
problem is not money and power. It is
how some men; especially those in positions of power generally treat women.
Money and power is just the way of keeping their disgusting sexual abuse quiet. Does it not matter if they
are Bill Clinton, Donald Trump or Harvey Weinstein? Yes it does because men in
power who take advantages of both women and/or children for sexual
gratification deserve to be punished and ostracized.
It’s always interesting as to how such behavior is ignored for decades
and then suddenly it gets exposed unexpectantly. It only takes one complainant
to publicly make an announcement. When that happens, there is often a flood of
similar complaints suddenly opening the flood gates and submerging the sexual predator‘s
reputation permanently.
In a statement made by Weinstein’s spokesperson, Sallie
Hofmeister, said: “Any allegations of non-consensual sex are unequivocally
denied by Mr. Weinstein. Mr. Weinstein has further confirmed that there were
never any acts of retaliation against any women for refusing his advances. He
will not be available for further comments, as he is taking the time to focus
on his family, on getting counseling and rebuilding his life.”
This movie mogul’s decision
to seek professional help only came in the wake of this current massive and
ongoing sexual
harassment and assault scandal, in which dozens of women had
come forward to accuse him of sexual abuse over the course of decades.
At
one point, Weinstein reportedly offered to go to Europe for rehab, where they
have special trips to the Alps or whatever. Journalists would call that act as
what it commonly referred to as “fleeing the country,” or otherwise known as
“Doing a Polanski,” This man was a film
director. In
March 1977, and was arrested and charged in Los Angeles with five offenses against
Samantha Gailey, a 13-year-old girl with rape by use of drugs, lewd
perversion, sodomy and a
lascivious act upon a child under 14, To
escape his sentence, he slipped out of the United States and went to Europe
where is still residing today.
Why didn’t this sexual
predator seek help years ago? Why is he seeking help now? The answer to that
last question is obvious. He is trying to save his reputation. Trying to save
his reputation is not unlike a drowning man clutching straws to stay afloat when
there is a heavy anchor attached to his feet.
I don’t know what just kind
of help this man is going to get. Although
participating in sex is considered a natural part of life, as is the case with
anything else, when it’s taken to an extreme, it can produce negative
consequences. Sex addiction treatment program options are available, but it’s
important to understand what’s involved in this addiction and how it develops.
While psychologists have struggled to arrive at a precise definition for sex
addiction, it’s largely believed to include an inability to control or manage
one’s sexual behavior.
According to Medical News Today, it’s thought that sexual
addictions could be associated with chemical changes within the brain.
Researchers also now believe that lesions located on a specific area of the
brain could result in compulsive sexual behavior. Individuals who suffer from
sexual addictions often come from dysfunctional families and have often been
abused by others in the past. Studies have also found a large number of sex
addicts have family members who also suffer from other types of addiction. CNN
reports as many as 80 percent of sex addicts have experienced emotional trauma
or sexual abuse. Naturally, I have no idea about what made become addicted to
sex.
An
individual who’s suffering from
sexual addiction might also have made multiple attempts to control his or her
behavior without success. Sex addicts might also spend an extensive amount of
time attempting to obtain sex. This behavior can interfere with work,
recreational and social activities. In some instances, the person might
experience sexual rage disorder and become anxious, distressed or violent if
they aren’t able to engage in sexual activity. This may explain why Weinstein
was angry on occasion when his sexual overtures were rebuffed.
Sex
addiction can be difficult to spot from the outside. Most addicts become
skilled at hiding their behavior and can even keep the addiction secret from
spouses, partners, and family members. They will do this by lying about their
activities or engaging in them at times and places where they won’t be found
out.
But
sometimes symptoms are present and noticeable. A person might have a sex
addiction if they show some or all of the following signs such as chronic, obsessive sexual
thoughts and fantasies, frequent relations with multiple partners, including
strangers, lying to cover their addiction, preoccupation with having sex, even
when it interferes with daily life, productivity, work performance, etc., inability
to stop or control the sec behaviors, putting oneself or others in danger due to the
sexual behavior, engaging in sexual activity with prostitutes or illegally with
minors, need for dominance and control in sexual encounters and feeling remorse
or guilt after sex.
It is obvious that some of
these signs would apply to Harvey Weinstein but certainly not all of them. But
there is no doubt in my mind that he needs psychiatric help to solve his
problem. He can be cured but it will take some considerable time because sex
addiction is a really difficult habit to erase from one’s mind. What will be
impossible to erase is his now destroyed reputation.
I hardly think that those
women who had sex with Weinstein really wanted to have sex with that sexual
predator.
Harvey Weinstein must learn this valuable
lesson. If a man says that he will give a woman what she desires if she goes to
bed with him; this can hardly be considered a consensual sexual relationship. Such
a relationship is valid when both parties participating in such a sex act
actually want to have sex together.
Is Weinstein currently honest
in his response to the allegations and also sincere in his claim that he will
seek help? I will give you my answer after you ask yourselves these two
following questions.
Is the pope an atheist? Do Jews eat pork? There is my answer to my
question as to whether or not Weinstein is honest in his response to the
allegations and him claiming to be sincere.
Right now I can hear a faint
voice coming from the bottom of the sea. Can you hear it? It is Harvey
Weinstein with the anchor still attached to his feet exclaiming, “I didn’t do
it. I didn’t do it.”
If a man wishes to be respected, he must possess virtues
that are admired by all. Does Weinstein now have those virtues?” More
importantly, does any serial sexual predator really have virtues?
Maybe in the future, he may become a decent man. One thing is for sure. He won’t get a job where his working environment is close to women and where he is in a position where he can hire, promote or fire them.
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